Let’s get one thing straight: boudoir isn’t just about lingerie and sultry poses. It’s about you.
It’s about taking up space, owning your body, and seeing yourself the way others already do—with admiration, love, and awe. Whether you’re marking a milestone, stepping into a new chapter, or just craving a reminder of your own strength and beauty, a boudoir shoot is a celebration of you in this very moment.
So… Why Boudoir?
Because you deserve to feel good in your skin.
Because you’re not waiting until you “lose 10 pounds.”
Because confidence doesn’t come from perfection—it comes from showing up as you are.
A boudoir session is part therapy, part art, and all empowerment. I don’t shoot to make you look sexy—I shoot to help you see what’s already there. That soft curve. That bold stare. That little smile you didn’t even know you made. You are worthy of being seen, just as you are.
And it’s an amazing spicy gift to your partner…. which is just plain fun after years of marriage!
What to Wear to Your Boudoir Shoot
Let’s bust the myth: you don’t have to wear lingerie. You don’t have to wear anything that doesn’t feel like you.
Here are some favorite go-to outfit ideas:
Lingerie sets – Timeless, elegant, and flattering for every body.
Bodysuits – Think sleek, sculpting, and perfect for moody lighting.
Oversized sweater or T-shirt – Casual, cozy, and quietly sexy.
A robe or kimono – Great for layering and adding softness.
Button-down shirt (yours or his) – Classic and versatile.
Nothing but a sheet – Trust me, it’s iconic.
Statement pieces – Think sheer dresses, corsets, or minimalist two-pieces if you want to go bold.
When you book with me, I guide you through every step—including what to wear. You’ll get a prep guide with outfit inspiration, and I’ll help you curate a wardrobe that fits your taste, comfort level, and the vibe we’re going for. I can even help you source specific items that flatter your body and align with the look we’re creating—whether that’s soft and ethereal or bold and dramatic.
The most important thing? You wear what makes you feel like you. The rest is magic.
Ready to see yourself through a new lens?
Let’s create something beautiful—just for you. 🖤
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Curious or nervous? That’s totally normal. Reach out with any questions—As a NJ Boudoir Photographer, I’m here to walk you through every step.
